How To Choose The One :: Your Wedding Gown

Selecting your wedding gown for the BIG day, is very much like choosing your partner for life. You have to make sure you are compatible, make sure it’s the right fit; and many people ask, how do you know when it is time to say YES to the DRESS? One word: butterflies.

Getting to butterflies can be quite the challenge, and in many cases, several locations and dress options. First, you need to establish a Budget for your wedding gown. Most bridal gowns today tend to run from $800-3000 for most designers readily available in bridal boutiques in the US, and on average, most brides spend around $1250 for their gown. One way to cut down on cost is to search for pre-owned bridal gowns, or keep a look out for bridal shops in your area for Sample Sales.

Once you have established your budget, and before you even venture to a Sample Sale, you need to determine the style of gown you want. This is where compatibility and fit are most important. The best advice I was given, and that I will share with you is simply this: try on each style of gown (whether you love lace or not) to determine if you like mermaid, trumpet, fit & flare, a-line, or full ball gown. The first time I tried on wedding gowns, my heart was set on a form fitting mermaid gown. Then I tried one on, the exact one I had drooled over in magazine, and while I felt fabulous, I did not get butterflies. I was underwhlemed. It felt like a dress I would wear to a red carpet event, not down the church aisle to surprise the love of my life.

The most important fact about trying on all different styles is you can cut out a style that simply will not work, and determine which style makes you feel like a bride. You have selected a style, now it is about the little details. Bling, ruffles, texture, color and fabric are next.

Search online and in bridal magazines for the details on gowns, even if it is not the style you want. Make an appointment at your local bridal shop, and bring these aides to show your bridal consultant at your appointment. She will pull options for you, and then all 3 factors come into play. Compatibility, fit, and then this is where the butterflies come in.

You may get lucky with a Mother Fairy Consultant, and in my case, it happened to be a designer that I was obsessing over, Justin Alexander. He happened to have a trunk show at the bridal shop where I had my appointment. My consultant and Justin Alexander came up to me, and he said, “this is your gown”, and politely took the other ball gown out of my hands, and handed me her. The moment I stepped in front of the mirror with her on, I melted. I mean, butterflies to the point I was bursting out in hives and tears! This gown had all 3 factors, complete with tufts of tulle over ostrich feathers and a French corset. She was perfect. While the girls were “jacking me up” with accessories and veils, Justin Alexander personally drew a sketch of me in my gown (gasp!). I snapped a photo with him, and said YES to the DRESS!

Much like choosing your mate for life, you just know when it’s right, and you say yes.

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Justin Alexander & I when I said YES to the DRESS, and my Wedding Day.

 

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Oliver Wedding

When every girl dreams of her wedding day, she imagines a magical experience complete with the perfect groom and the perfect day.  While planning a wedding can be stressful, our wedding day was nothing short of perfect.  It was better than I could have imagined, simply because I was marrying a beautiful man that I gave my heart to.  On that day I felt pure bliss.

I planned the entire Wedding, down to the mints and the peonies in my bouquet.  With the help of family and friends on that day and the days leading up to our wedding, my dream became reality.  A HUGE Thank You to all of these special people we love!!!

On 08.03.13 we held the Big Reveal at La Valencia Hotel in front of their romantic picture window, and proceeded to take bridal party photos on the hotel’s grounds.  We were wed at Mary Star of the Sea in La Jolla, CA., and the Reception followed the Ceremony at The Powerhouse in Del Mar, CA. The Reception site overlooked the Pacific Ocean, and we were lucky enough to have a picture perfect day.

Vendor Details Listed Below.

dress -Darcy Oliver Design

la jolla-Darcy Oliver Design

wedding gown-Darcy Oliver Design

justin alexander -Darcy Oliver Design

Mother of the Bride-Darcy Oliver Design

Bridesmaids Gifts-Darcy Oliver Design

Navy Garter and Sparkle Shoes-Darcy Oliver Design

feather boutonierre, j crew neckalce-Darcy Oliver Design

reveal, la jolla-Darcy Oliver Design

bride, groom-Darcy Oliver Design

Bridal Portrait, La Jolla-Darcy Oliver Design

Peony, Rose, Orchid Bouget-Darcy Oliver Design

Bridal Party-Darcy Oliver Design

Bride, Groom-Darcy Oliver Design

flower wreath, ring bearer-Darcy Oliver Design

flower girls-Darcy Oliver Design

Bridesmaids-Darcy Oliver Design

ceremony decor, church wedding-Darcy Oliver Design

Aisle-Darcy Oliver Design

First kiss, flower girl-Darcy Oliver Design

Vintage getaway car-Darcy Oliver Design

wedding-Darcy Oliver Design

Powerhouse, del mar-Darcy Oliver Design

sign in, seating chart-Darcy Oliver Design

cake table, gold, pink-Darcy Oliver Design

cake banner, french-Darcy Oliver Design

sweetheart table-Darcy Oliver Design

decor, centerpiece-Darcy Oliver Design

menu sign-Darcy Oliver Design

gold sequins-Darcy Oliver Design

gift table-Darcy Oliver Design

cake cutting-Darcy Oliver Design

Bridesmaids and Groom-Darcy Oliver Design

Beach Wedding-Darcy Oliver Design

Beach-Darcy Oliver Design

Sparkler, kiss-Darcy Oliver Design

Vendors:

Photography: Teale Photography

Videography (Posting Soon!): Love Like a Movie

Photo Shoot Venue: La Valencia Hotel

Ceremony Venue: Mary Star of the Sea

Reception Venue: The Powerhouse

Flowers & Decor: Darcy Oliver Design

Cake: Lemon Grove Pastry Shop

Wedding Gown: Justin Alexander

Groom’s Tuxedo: A Better Deal Tuxedo 

Bridesmaid Dresses: Jim Hjelm Occassions

Flower Girl Dresses: Seahorse by Watters

Catering: Porkyland La Jolla

Hair: Shannon Hay

Live Music: Anthony Adams

Vintage Car: Haynes Chauffeuring 

DJ: Sunset Mobile Music

Maid of Honor Necklace: Prisonher